affirmations for when you're healing from rejection

Rejection is painful because it leaves you feeling unworthy, lonely and dejected.

It has negatively impacted my self worth on multiple occasions, and I struggle often with moving past those emotions. 

If you’re dealing with someone rejecting you romantically, being rejected from an organization or something you applied to, or have a fear of rejection, I’m hoping these affirmations remind you of how worthy you are.

Pick yourself back up after being rejected and align yourself with the power of self love and self acceptance. 

Dealing with rejection affirmations: 

  • My worth doesn’t disappear because someone couldn’t see it.

  • Not being chosen doesn’t mean something is wrong with me.

  • I’m allowed to take this slow.

  • What left my life is making room for something better aligned.

  • The right people won’t make me question my value.

  • I can let this be painful without letting it define me.

  • Walking away from what wasn’t meant for me is its own kind of strength.

  • My life doesn’t shrink because someone else walked out of it.

  • I’m allowed to want more than the bare minimum.

  • This pain will not be permanent.

  • I am learning to choose myself even when others don’t.

  • What I bring to the table is still valuable.


  • Being rejected doesn’t erase the love I’m capable of giving.

  • Clarity is a gift, even when it arrives painfully.

  • I deserve relationships where I don’t have to beg for effort.

  • What’s meant for me will feel steady, not confusing.

  • Being let go doesn’t make me less deserving of love.

  • My value isn’t up for debate.

  • I’m allowed to outgrow people who wanted me to shrink.

  • The right connection won’t require me to prove my worth.

  • Someone else’s choice is not a measurement of my character.

  • I can hold my hurt without letting it harden me.

  • There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be chosen; it just wasn’t by them.

  • Healing is happening even when I can’t see it.


  • This experience is shaping me, not breaking me.

  • My heart will trust again when it’s ready.

  • I deserve a love that doesn’t make me feel replaceable.

  • The version of me that survives this will be wiser.

  • I’m allowed to take back my power, piece by piece.

  • Not everyone is meant to stay, and that’s okay.

  • I can choose peace over people who confuse me.

  • What I bring isn’t for everyone, and that’s not a flaw.

  • Ending does not equal failure.

  • I’m becoming someone who refuses to settle for less than clarity.

  • This hurt is real, and it will still pass.

  • My worth isn’t something people get to decide.


  1. Some endings protect me, even if they don’t feel like it yet.

  2. I want someone who wants me back.

  3. The pain won’t last as long as the growth will.

  4. Being rejected doesn’t make me less lovable.

  5. My softness is not a weakness.

  6. What’s meant for me won’t feel like guessing.

  7. Someone else’s “no” can still lead me to my “yes.”

  8. My life is bigger than this moment.

  9. I get to rebuild at my own pace.

  10. What ended wasn’t the end of me.

  11. I deserve presence, honesty and effort.

  12. Something better aligned is already moving toward me.

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