self love affirmations when single on Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day can sometimes bring up some negative emotions for those who are single, heartbroken or lonely. But it shouldn’t be a holiday that has to be avoided or dreaded if you don’t have a romantic partner. 

Being single doesn’t mean you can’t practice self love and do fun things with yourself or girlfriends to celebrate Valentine’s Day. 

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If you are feeling down about being single on this day that’s so focused on romantic love, I want you to feel comfortable embracing those emotions. It’s so normal to feel like this, and it’s okay. 

Use these affirmations to remind yourself that it’s not a bad thing to be single on Valentine’s Day, and your self love will power you through it if you’re feeling down. 

main character energy

• I am my own favorite valentine.

• I get to romanticize my life today.

• I am excited to spend time with myself.

• I make this day special just by starring in it.

• I am the plan, and I love that for me.

• I deserve to give myself flowers, treats and softness.

• I feel cute, confident and completely in my lane.

• I am the kind of company I actually enjoy.

• I get to fall in love with my own routine.

• I make ordinary moments feel romantic.

• I am the love story I’m focusing on right.

romanticizing valentine’s day

• I make today cozy, cute and intentional.

• I get to plan a date with myself.

• I savor little treats without saving them for later.

• I create rituals that feel special to me.

• I buy myself flowers without second guessing it.

• I let today feel soft and celebratory.

• I enjoy doing things slowly and on purpose.

• I make space for joy in small ways.

• I dress up even if I’m staying in.

• I let this day feel sweet instead of heavy.

• I let myself enjoy this day fully.

self love on valentine’s day

• I am determined to make myself feel loved today.

• I am allowed to enjoy valentine’s day in my own way.

• I give myself the kind of love I’ve always deserved.

• I celebrate myself without needing a reason.

• I am worthy of romance, care and softness, starting with me.

• I treat myself like someone I love.

• I show up for myself with intention and warmth.

• I am my own safe place.

• I make space for joy, even if it looks different this year.

• I let this day be about appreciation for myself.