Society teaches girls at a young age that we’re more emotional and dramatic than men, so oftentimes we try to shy away from being that way and lean into covering our emotions up. In a world that wants us to be controlled and limited, don’t be afraid to stick out and be emotional, vulnerable, dramatic, etc

Trusting the timing of your life takes self love to appreciate where you are in your journey, and it takes self compassion to give yourself grace for what you haven’t achieved yet.

Taking part in self care activities at home is a great routine to start because it calms you down and improves your mood in the luxury of your own home. 

Happiness is an emotional state of well-being and contentment.

Everyone has a different standard of what makes them happy and how they reach this level of satisfaction, but many people recognize that state of mind to be joyful and pleasing. 

If you’re like me and enjoy journaling and exploring your personal relationship, I want you to try a 30-day self love writing challenge!

It’ll allow you to focus on different areas of your life and how you view yourself to improve your self love and do some self improvement along the way. 

I’m trying to unlearn bad habits and patterns, learn how to be communicative and present, reassure and show him how much he means to me and stay grounded in my other obligations and relationships. 

What do you want to achieve in the upcoming 30 days? What self love activities do you want to partake in? What goals do you have for yourself this month?

Celebrating your birthday alone is great because you can plan your own itinerary with all your favorite activities and meals -- without fearing disappointment or pressure from others. 

Dating can be rough and scary, but I know it’s possible to bounce back from being hurt and disappointed. Some advice for the hot girls for when a guy ends things with you: don’t plead or try to reason, cry it out in your own space, go no contact and avoid stalking them.

So we all agree trips and vacation are healthy and a good thing. But what about when we come back and face post-trip depression? It can be such a sudden drop in emotions. To keep these good feelings going, let’s try making our daily lives more exciting.

Self love is crucial for a healthy relationship with yourself. But it can take time to get where you want to be in your self love journey. So let’s take it day by day and start with some daily habits you can start doing today to improve your self love. 

I’m currently trying to quell the fears of being unworthy to date by reminding myself not to self sabotage, enjoy the good moments, be careful of love bombing and trust the timing of my life. 

Advocating for yourself is incredibly important because you will be overlooked and ignored if you don’t show people your value and your willingness to leave if you’re not treated the way you deserve.

I have all this pressure and feelings about men and dating, but I feel the most peaceful and satisfied when I’m content with being single and not looking for anyone. So if you want to feel peaceful and satisfied, you know what to do ladies: decenter men from your life!

In those moments of doubt or feeling undervalued at work, remember that you are worthy, valuable and meant for the right company. Try your hardest not to take it personally, advocate for yourself and don’t be afraid to walk away. 

If you’re scared to talk about your feelings, write down and practice what you want to say, remember to breathe, make eye contact and remember your reasons.

When it comes to dealing with friends who constantly compare themselves to you, try not to get upset or defensive, express your feelings about the comparisons and acknowledge their emotions while still speaking up for yourself. 

Self sabotaging in the early stages of dating is when you let fears, past trauma, insecurities, etc. prevent you from being vulnerable and accepting the good things and fresh experiences that could come out of a new relationship with someone.